I like to think of life as being full
of opportunities and risks. It's the opportunities we take that make us
successful. It's the risks that we don't take that keep us where we are and
keep us from achieving our goals. Life is short. It’s shorter than you think. And
it’s even shorter if something tragic happens to you like an auto accident or
cancer. If you don't take risks, you were not living your life to your full potential.
Some people are satisfied going
through life without ever really experiencing life. I'm not talking about
drinking at the club with friends all night, going on vacations all the time,
making a lot of money, spending a lot of money, etc. I'm talking about reaching
your full potential by doing something that you are genuinely passionate about.
Passion is something that you do because you really feel in your heart that is
what you were meant and designated to do in this life.
I see many people that are content
with their lives. I see many people go throughout life playing it safe. I see
many people who absolutely hate their jobs but refuse to quit because they're
scared of the outcome and the possibility of not being able to find another
job.
There's a difference between a job
and a career. A job is something that you go to because you get paid to do it
but you don't really enjoy doing it and you rather be doing something else. “Jobs”
don’t get you closer to your goals. In fact, they prevent you or delay you from
taking the necessary steps to achieve your goals. A career is something that
you wake up every day wanting to do because you're really passionate about it
and it's your life goal to be in this career. Don’t
become a doctor or a lawyer just because most of them make good money or
because that’s what your parents expected you to be. You’ll notice that in
every single area of business, the “go-getters” are the ones everybody knows
and the “others” are the businesses that are just playing it safe.
The average American spends
approximately 100,000 hours of their life working. Now that's a lot of time. If
you're miserable because your job sucks, you hate your boss because he yells at
you all the time, you feel overwhelmed, you feel overworked or you feel under-appreciated, well hopefully you don't end up like some people who retire
at that very place that they absolutely hate.
I meet a lot of miserable and jealous
people all the time. Most of them you can tell it stems from their
"jobs."
I was always one of those people who
felt as if, if you don't enjoy doing it, don't do it. Do things in life that
you're passionate about and you'll be amazing at it. You'll be successful at
it. And one day, when you're old and gray you will look back and say, “I lived
life like every day was my last day.”
I don't do anything I don't want to
do. I only do things I'm passionate about. Everything that I do, I take pride
in and I give a hundred percent. I don't look for handouts. I take risks and
explore opportunities.
Reasons Why You Are
Not Living Up To Your Full Potential:
1.
You don't take risks.
As mentioned before if you don't take
risks you'll never know the outcome and you always live to regret saying
"what if this" and “what if that.” A friend of mine quit her job
making 600,000 annually because she despised her work environment. It was the
hardest decision that she had ever had to make in her life. All of her family
and friends were telling her how big of a mistake she had made. She had no idea
what she was going to do next. What she knew for sure was that she had to do
what was right for her. She realized that life is short and that you have to
take risks to find your potential. Now she's a multi-millionaire running a very
lucrative company. It is now she is able to say that she’s living her dream.
2.
You're complacent.
You should never get too comfortable in
life. That includes your career life, your love life, etc. Do not allow
yourself to become complacent. Successful people who are complacent are never
really happy with what they have and they are always looking for more and more.
Life shouldn't feel like a routine—wake up, go to work, go bed and repeat. We're
not robots if you haven't noticed. Your life should feel more like an adventure.
You should be doing things that inspire you and that are exciting. You never
want to get bored with life. You need to challenge yourself. You need to go
outside of your roam of comfortability and try something different. Look at
successful people like Warren Buffett. He's 83-years-old yet he’s still running
Geico and Berkshire Hathaway and buying businesses. Warren Buffett understands
that taking life as an adventure is one of the keys to become successful while
also reaching your full potential.
3.
You're jealous of others.
Jealousy is a horrible thing. Jealous
people are miserable. They have horrible lives, they hate what they do for a
living and they focus too much of their attention on people they wish they
could be. Maybe they’re single and don’t love life. But think about it: if
you're 45-years-old, single and have never been married, clearly there's a reason
why. Nobody wants to be around someone who's jealous and miserable. So instead
of being jealous of other people because you see them accomplishing their
dreams and reaching their potential, go out in reach your potential.
4.
You waste time.
Don't just sit there and wait for an
opportunity to come to you. I guarantee you it’s not coming, it’s only going. Opportunities
are to be sought by an individual. Instead of going to work every day to your
crappy job, then coming home to watch TV, eat dinner and shower, only to wake
up and do the same thing over and over again. You should be doing anything …
something that puts you closer to your goal. Time is of the essence. Go out and
be social, just for the hell of it. I'm a very sociable person. I will talk to
anybody about anything. I would go out just because I wanted to meet new people
and be inspired. I mean, that's a step towards your success if you’re not doing
anything else.
5.
You're afraid of failure.
You're afraid of something that
everybody else around is afraid of as well. It's the people who overcome their fright
of failure by taking risks with the intent to become successful in their
personal and professional life and reach their full potential. Yes, I know the
feeling of failure is not easy. I know it doesn’t feel good. You should also
know one thing though: failure is not final, at least as long as you don't let
it be. The only way that you'll be able to make your dream a reality is to take
that first step—to take that risk. I realize that the difference between a
successful person and an unsuccessful person is that a successful person always
tries.
At the end of the day when you go to
bed, are you happy with your life? Can you honestly say you wake up every day
excited to start the day? Do you take continuous steps every moment you can to get
you to reach your goals and dreams? Don't live life with regrets and don't
regret things that you've done your life. If you want something in life, you
have to go get it! Ever heard of motivation?